“Being a parent and having children without any training is like opening up a box of something that needs to be assembled, with no instructions. You know what you want it to look like, but you don’t know how to get it to that point. This book helped me get the instructions.” “My life is damned near changed because of this.”

“It’s easier for me to make decisions. It’s easier for me to parent from a neutral place; whether I’m angry or happy or joyful, it’s a neutral place that comes out of love and comes from I want him to be his best…”

“I pictured parenting as 90% just reactive, just going based off what’s given to you instead of having a game plan, but this book has helped me develop a game plan…”

“I now have an excitement about interacting with my children because I know it will be productive, it will be positive because I’m purposely conscious about it now. I’m just really excited about that.”

“The biggest change in the home is me purposely causing more positive interaction between my sons and I, because at one point, it seemed like if I wasn’t yelling at them, I wasn’t talking to them, so I focus more on spending more positive time with them and affecting them more in a positive light.”

“This has helped me grow as an individual, not only in parenting but even working with other individuals…”

“I absolutely and positively recommend it to everyone! Everyone. Parenting doesn’t need to be trial and error…”

“There’s a certain body of knowledge that every parent needs, and Bolanle Ambonisye has done a terrific job of concisely organizing and presenting the essential information we all need to be an effective parent.”

“It’s filled with powerful information presented in the most easy-to-understand and digest and comprehend format I can imagine. I just wish I had taken it 30 years ago, before my first child.”

“I recommend this to any parent who really wants to make a difference in their child’s life, as far as getting them on the right track, getting more organization and peace within their home.”

“It worked wonders for me and my family. My son is a teenager now, and he and I have a relationship that my father and I didn’t have…we talk about everything. Normally, teenagers pull away from their parents, but he and I are getting closer…he seeks me out and asks my opinion…”

“These simple little techniques changed everything. It made it calmer in the house, a more relaxed atmosphere, it just changed everything for us to make it where we can accomplish our goal with much less stress…an eye opener.”