Parent from values, not triggers.
Break generational curses.
Stop repeating what hurt you.
Stop guessing. Lead with confidence.
Correct parenting mistakes.
Turn behavior and grades around fast.
Parent with clarity and confidence.
Gain calm authority your child will respect.
Rewrite your parenting patterns.
Set healthy limits, enjoy a peaceful home.
Small shifts = big changes at school and home.

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“Witnessing Bolanle Ambonisye’s lifetime commitment to supporting parents and their children...has been an honor.”

“Bolanle Ambonisye has done a terrific job of concisely organizing and presenting the essential information we all need to be an effective parent.”

“Bolanle Ambonisye is a great facilitator of this information with the experience she has, being that she is a wonderful mother of four.”

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“It worked wonders for me and my family. My son is a teenager now, and he and I have a relationship that my father and I didn’t have…we talk about everything. Normally, teenagers pull away from their parents, but he and I are getting closer…he seeks me out and asks my opinion…”

“These simple little techniques changed everything. It made it calmer in the house, a more relaxed atmosphere, it just changed everything for us to make it where we can accomplish our goal with much less stress…an eye opener.”

“Being a parent and having children without any training is like opening up a box of something that needs to be assembled, with no instructions. You know what you want it to look like, but you don’t know how to get it to that point. This book helped me get the instructions.”

“My life is damned near changed because of this.”

“It’s easier for me to make decisions. It’s easier for me to parent from a neutral place; whether I’m angry or happy or joyful, it’s a neutral place that comes out of love and comes from I want him to be his best…”

“I pictured parenting as 90% just reactive, just going based off what’s given to you instead of having a game plan, but this book has helped me develop a game plan…”

“I now have an excitement about interacting with my children because I know it will be productive, it will be positive because I’m purposely conscious about it now. I’m just really excited about that.”

“The biggest change in the home is me purposely causing more positive interaction between my sons and I, because at one point, it seemed like if I wasn’t yelling at them, I wasn’t talking to them, so I focus more on spending more positive time with them and affecting them more in a positive light.”

“This has helped me grow as an individual, not only in parenting but even working with other individuals…”

“I absolutely and positively recommend it to everyone! Everyone. Parenting doesn’t need to be trial and error…”

“There’s a certain body of knowledge that every parent needs, and Bolanle Ambonisye has done a terrific job of concisely organizing and presenting the essential information we all need to be an effective parent.”

“It’s filled with powerful information presented in the most easy-to-understand and digest and comprehend format I can imagine. I just wish I had taken it 30 years ago, before my first child.”

“I recommend this to any parent who really wants to make a difference in their child’s life, as far as getting them on the right track, getting more organization and peace within their home.”

“I learned things I plan to use throughout the rest of my life.”

“it really helps you to understand why your children may do certain things. It helps you to look at yourself and see things you may doesn’t help your child develop the way you would like them to.”

“…reminds us of how much control we as parents do have, how we can be a filter and influence despite what society says…”

“…helped me to answer exactly what do I want to convey as a parent? What do I want my children to grow into and become? We need to be very explicit about that.”

“You’ll get a lot of tools to be a better parent; a better person, really.”

“It was very beneficial. It brought to light things you seldomly think about as a parent, and what parenting is.”

“A lot of times we think we know everything about everything, and we don’t seek out new information. I feel like anybody – whether you have teenagers, or are expecting a child, everybody can gain…”

“I have 3 small kids, and I’m one of those guys who think I know everything, but Bolanle definitely put me on game on a few things. I appreciate that…”

“It’s VERY beneficial, especially young adults who have children…our youth are struggling now and need answers…this covers a lot a questions that need to be answered about what we should do, what a good parent does and what a good parent doesn’t do.”

“…and it explains a lot of the conditions we’re in as a people, why we do things wrong and the method behind why we do things wrong, and when you understand why you’re tripping over your feet, you can move your feet.”

“It’s needed…It gives you options.”

“The tools are really in our head, but she words them and awakens them so eloquently.”

“Every parent should get it, especially young mothers, Black mothers in particular…”

“You can’t learn this information too early or too late…”

“These skills will come in handy!”

“I wish I had this 30 years ago…I could have been a better parent if I had known more about parenting…”

“If it’s one thing you should get better at, it’s being a dad…”